tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post3008296743447859705..comments2023-06-10T02:41:02.954-07:00Comments on Holy Fire, Cake Girl!: Can You Be A Mom and Still be Sexy?!CakeGirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-79826725789135719602013-02-18T17:46:36.851-08:002013-02-18T17:46:36.851-08:00Michelle!!! Thank you so much for saying that!!! S...Michelle!!! Thank you so much for saying that!!! So very much!! I love what you said about the Penny's pics!! So funny! Thank you for putting yourself out there, because YOU inspire ME!!! <3CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-47701594538095470322013-02-18T13:32:33.977-08:002013-02-18T13:32:33.977-08:00I think they are AMAZING!!!! I got some flack from...I think they are AMAZING!!!! I got some flack from a few people when I posted some of the pics from my Boudoir shoot on my FB page also "for the world to see", I don't have a perfect body, but they (the pictures) made me feel good!! It's my body, if you don't like my pics, or the fact that I want to show them off to the world, then don't look at them!!!! I'm not perfect, but I am happy with ME, and I have found that the majority of the 'haters' need to re~evaluate themselves, and stop concentrating so much on everyone else, then they may be happier in their own skin, and who knows, maybe even do a photo shoot NAKED with their baby instead of some dumb YOU~ SIT~ HERE~ JcPenney pics!!!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11349372948528334959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-86919145191078377202013-02-15T13:38:17.562-08:002013-02-15T13:38:17.562-08:00That is more what my point is. I can't separat...That is more what my point is. I can't separate them anymore. It just isn't as healthy for me. Thank you for commenting!<br />CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-20819591470095791082013-02-15T13:02:01.517-08:002013-02-15T13:02:01.517-08:00I kind of disagree. The garterbelt is part of the ...I kind of disagree. The garterbelt is part of the statement of it to me. It is what says: YES, I am a mother and YES, I am a sexual being. It's not a sexy "pose" it's sexy clothes, which is kind of like saying, moms should make time for every aspect of their womanhood. How is this picture different from other paintings or sculptures where women are shown as both sexy and mothers?Dawn Babcock Papplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10614538937094811569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-13088888445333380362013-02-15T11:57:10.944-08:002013-02-15T11:57:10.944-08:00First of all, thank you for taking the time to com...First of all, thank you for taking the time to comment. That is also what I was about nervous when I shared it. Let me repeat, it WAS a super private secret group, not just out there for all of FB to see. Even on my personal page I was hesitent, so I made it very blurry, but still felt it was worthy of an advertisement for my photography page. What I envisioned before I took the pic was just nothing on my legs. Let me ask you this, do you think it would be less controversial, if there were no garters? I know it is just my back, and that I see more at the beach. Really the undies aren't " risky", just lacy. It's not even a thong! That is what gets me, because of a little string and the top of nylons, it makes it too sexual for some? I do agree these were really only intended for my husband, but why. I am not being a pervert. What I think the REAL deaal, is that there is a differnce between perverted, or slutty, or sexy. Woman should mean sexy. And not shame if you are. Not saying that is what you were saying at all. It is sort of a catch 22 isn't it? How to make women feel more normal, even sexy, make it the norm, even wholesome, without being judgey? Can we be wholesome and sexy? Maybe tht would be a better title?CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-75843278109767420702013-02-15T09:22:38.423-08:002013-02-15T09:22:38.423-08:00Great post. I nurse my new baby and im a lactivist...Great post. I nurse my new baby and im a lactivist. I think the problem people have with the photo is the garter belt and stockings is risque lingerie. If any of my friends on fb post a photo wearing thay it doesnt matter if they are a mom or not imo thats for hubbys eyes only<br /><br />New Mom who nurses Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-21706906250372476732013-02-13T08:02:31.166-08:002013-02-13T08:02:31.166-08:00Rachel Thank you so very much! Love you too!!!! Ma...Rachel Thank you so very much! Love you too!!!! Make sure you follow me! I am so glad you found me here!CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-39625325024621747622013-02-13T08:01:33.473-08:002013-02-13T08:01:33.473-08:00Thank you Amy!Thank you Amy!CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-73307260175664597142013-02-13T08:01:19.828-08:002013-02-13T08:01:19.828-08:00Thank you so much for saying that!
Thank you so much for saying that!<br />CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-56112820757841356142013-02-13T08:00:55.415-08:002013-02-13T08:00:55.415-08:00I replied but it came out as a comment!- Awwww!!! ...I replied but it came out as a comment!- Awwww!!! Thank you soooo very much Trina! <3 to you too. As always, I appreciate your comments. So glad you feel the same way. High FiveCakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-51704266131621851002013-02-13T07:59:52.106-08:002013-02-13T07:59:52.106-08:00I could not have said it better myself. We NEED to...I could not have said it better myself. We NEED to see these. So much could be different if just everyone did it. If being confident mothers/women WAS the norm. My children and their s to come need to see it. Yup! Their grandma, smoking hot! Being a mommy! Thank you so much for commenting Dawn!! it means the world to me!! Also, for sharing it on your page!<br />CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-84261144640692090832013-02-13T07:59:26.216-08:002013-02-13T07:59:26.216-08:00Thank you so much Jessie! That is exactly how I fe...Thank you so much Jessie! That is exactly how I feel!!! CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-47893434095035033032013-02-11T09:28:30.691-08:002013-02-11T09:28:30.691-08:00Here's the deal... Women NEED to see other wom...Here's the deal... Women NEED to see other women being gorgeous and comfortable in their mama bodies. We need it because even when I had Noah, I thought, "Moms are not supposed to be sexy." ALSO... BABIES need us to see this too. How many more women would breastfeed longer if it didn't seem to us to be so conflicting? You know?! You can not compartmentalize the Mother Form. She became the mother because of her sexual form. There is such tremendous positivism that is brought to a marriage once a woman learns it is best for the whole family for her to not deny her sexuality.Dawnhttp://www.intellipissies.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-20100712252780716122013-02-11T04:14:59.428-08:002013-02-11T04:14:59.428-08:00You know, a lot of people miss the beauty in the w...You know, a lot of people miss the beauty in the world because they are too busy being bitter about their own battles that they feel the need to be rain on everyone else. I want to go more in depth but since I probably shouldn't, I won't. You know how I feel about you. I love you, this post and these pictures. Good for you!!!Jessie Jacksonhttps://www.facebook.com/ImpressionsGiftsOnlinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-19320859151387858272013-02-10T22:16:53.219-08:002013-02-10T22:16:53.219-08:00Love this. Love you!!
Love this. Love you!!<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-1344564807058309692013-02-10T21:44:04.221-08:002013-02-10T21:44:04.221-08:00Thank you!! I think so too. I wsn't really afr...Thank you!! I think so too. I wsn't really afraid, just modest. But I think it was important enough to share. it was just planned for my faamily. Thanks Amy so much!<br /> <3!<br />CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-64609774049957502942013-02-10T21:36:54.773-08:002013-02-10T21:36:54.773-08:00Beautiful!Beautiful!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12730569151050151546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-83419220210903170052013-02-10T20:52:45.605-08:002013-02-10T20:52:45.605-08:00Mothers are inspiring, strong, and powerful. Your ...Mothers are inspiring, strong, and powerful. Your photos are beautiful. Never be afraid to be who you are. Paalahttp://paa.la/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-42097646102897854262013-02-10T20:34:38.670-08:002013-02-10T20:34:38.670-08:00Awwww!!! Thank you soooo very much Trina! <3 to...Awwww!!! Thank you soooo very much Trina! <3 to you too. As always, I appreciate your comments. So glad you feel the same way. High Five!CakeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13682764947515873710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8342597825803436897.post-19208111678900522212013-02-10T19:09:10.982-08:002013-02-10T19:09:10.982-08:00You are awesome and brave and amazing. we are wom...You are awesome and brave and amazing. we are women and wives and mothers. The world needs to accept all of our parts or move along and leave us to our business. <3 to you my dear! Brava!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06206395438184642707noreply@blogger.com